Sex in Second Life always presents a lot of questions so please meet our new columnist who can answer anything your heart desires...
If you are a regular reader of ‘The Second Life Enquirer’ then you will know that we like to have fun here. This is no boring newspaper-oh no, we like to present you, dear reader, with all the best out there in our little virtual world and this issue we are all having lustful thoughts…the sap is rising. Hey! Blame it on springtime and the move to our gorgeous new premises ok? So when better to introduce you to our new journalist or ‘SLExpert’ the rather talented Shuni Hastings. Shuni will be answering questions from our readers on all issues concerning love and sex within SL so I decided to have a chat with her…..just to make sure she has the credentials for the job.
SLE “Hi Shuni. What brought you to SL in the first place?”
SH “Curiosity, I saw an article on the internet and decided to try SL.......my pc wasn’t as good as the one I have now and it kept crashing so I only logged in occasionally. For 3 months I remained on help island and thought that was SL !!!!!! LOL how naive.....it was only seeing a TV program late one night that made me realize the true potential of SL that my interest was renewed and since then I have not looked back.”
SLE “You are going to be SLE's resident 'SLExpert'...what makes you qualified to talk about sex in SL?
SH “Experience, experience and experience lol. I have been in SL for a while now and have experienced SL sex and love it. I have had 2 partners, my current partner and I married earlier this year. I have a nursing and counseling background in RL; I am and have always been a person that people seem to come to for advice, I use a common sense approach and give a straight forward answer.
SLE “.As our new SLExpert...does it mean that your SL life is 24/7 zig-a-zig-ahhhhhh?”
SH “Oh how I wish..... lol…. but there is something to be said for quality over quantity. Sex should be fun and a mutually rewarding experience, but it really is whatever floats your boat and turns you on.”
SLE “So what can our readers expect to hear from you in the future....what topics will you be covering?”
SH “Anything and everything. Good straight forward advice that I hope will help them have a fulfilling SL. SL should be fun. I can be a shoulder to cry on and ear to bend, someone you can ask those awkward embarrassing questions. I am not easily shocked. I love helping people and help lots of people in SL. I am a great believer in pay it forward........I don’t expect anything in return for helping someone I just ask that they pay it forward and help someone else.”
Please address any questions on a note card to Shuni Hastings. All questions will be confidential and no names given.
*Please Note Shuni Hastings is Not a Licensed professional in the field of Virtual Sex Education, strip Club Pole Polisher or busy escort services, Her advice is simply an offering of some honest and well thought out options and opinions that may enhance your Slex life but in no way shape or form will guarantee an O...Just so you know.
Entertainment and hot & heavy reading purposes only . Must be over 21 to contact Shuni with your Sexually Related Questions.
~The SL Enquirer
Dear Shuni I have just broken up with my SL boyfriend and my best friend who is female has asked me out. I am not sure what to do , I mean I have never been in a same sex relationship... Broken hearted
I can see right now your are feeling down with men and your heart is breaking, but take a step back from the situation and think before you reply to your friend, you say that you have never been in a same sex relationship before but the very fact that you are asking my advice indicates there is a certain appeal, maybe you are bi-curious but do you want to explore that at the expense of ruining a good friendship?
If you decide that it is not for you than you must be honest with your friend and say no, say you are flattered by her asking but that you would rather stay as her friend than complicate it with a relationship that may not work out, then you would have lost a lover and a friend. If you descide that it is something you would like to try then go ahead but with honesty, you never know you might enjoy it. Tell your friend that you are nervous and this is a first for you.
SL is an ideal opportunity to explore anything you want and there are plenty of women only places that you might like to explore, go there and hang out for a while see if it is what you would like, you dont know if you dont try. The most important thing is that you have to be comfortable and if the whole situation makes you feel uncomfortable then you will know your answer. Places to try are Venustus, Led Zepplin Reloaded, Isle of Syrns, House of Pink, A Woman's Touch, Jazzy's Nightclub and Lesbian Teahouse, all of these can be found in seach. The strongest piece of advice I can give you is to go with your gut instinct and be honest.
Have fun what ever you decide
Love Shuni xxxx
WARNING*- MATURE CONTENT
To attach or not to attach….that is the question……
I promised you last issue that I would talk about attachments, by attachments I mean the c*ck and the cl*t/p*$$y. These words are used daily and without embarrassment here in SL no man in SL could ever now deny that he does not know where a woman's clit is!
So do you really need them?
Well the answer to that is that it is personal preference and entirely up to the individuals concerned as to how much or how little reality they want to bring into their sex lives on SL. Plenty of av's survive quite happily without any attachments and the most rudimentary of cuddle pose balls, relying instead on the power of the written or spoken word to bring pleasure to their partner.
However there is a lot to be said for setting the scene and attachments can play a big part in this. Which attachments to buy can depend on the amount of realism that you want and also what you can afford. You can go from the basic ever hard and ever ready free penis to the all singing and all dancing cock that tells you what is happening in local chat and connects with your partners if they are wearing the same brand. I must say there is something quite appealing about an av standing with his cock hard and ready and certainly gets many juices flowing. The middle of the range cock will suffice alot of men and is far less tricky to fit than the top of the range one, but that little bit of extra time spent fitting one of the top range cocks can be well worth it for the satisfaction it can give both partners. The pussy or clit attachment is more for visual effect unless you have one that interacts.
So you have bought your chosen attachment, It is well worth, if you pardon the pun having a play with your cock or pussy when you first get it , I mean what person doesn’t like having a play eh?? Get to know the workings and how to adjust it correctly. There is nothing worse than seeing a male av with his cock gathering friction burns off the bed sheets/rug/couch/sand because he hasn’t adjusted it right and it is dragging along and for the woman to get her clit/pussy in the right place and the right skin color. With a little adjustment and some foreplay in some cases too, your cock can be at the right angle for a nice deep penetrative thrust. Particle effects can be seen on ejaculation/orgasm and if u so wish there can also be sound added. Please be warned though if you are living in close proximity to other people it might be worth turning off the local chat.......I once had to inform a neighbor of mine that I could see his cock was working well, but it might be better if he didn’t broadcast it to his neighbors’.
My advice to you is to shop around, use your search menu, have a look at what is on offer out there and decide what suits you and your wallet. Free and basic cocks and pussies can be found at the Penis Gallery, Penis World, Pussy World and Pussy Mall. If you want more up market then try Realasm, Midnight Lotus, LadyLove and Xcite! there is a vast array and to mention all that are available would be untenable so have fun exploring.
Until next time…happy SLexing!
Love Shuni x
